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The Five Languages of Love

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I haven’t read the book by Dr Gary Chapman but I have done the quiz. My results don’t surprise me and I think they explain a lot about how I behave and react when I’m in a relationship. Take the quiz here. It won’t take too long. This site may not have a very in-depth analysis of your results, so if you are interested to know more, Google for more quizzes, or buy the book.

My results are:

Percent Language Score
Words of Affirmation 9
Quality Time
Receiving Gifts 3
Acts of Service 3
Physical Touch 8

Your highest score indicates your primary love language. Your second highest score indicates your secondary love language. If two scores are identical, you are bi-lingual(you have two Primary love languages). If the scores of your primary language and your secondary language are close(for example, 10 and 9 respectively), it indicates both are important to you. The highest possible score for any one love language is 12.

Having a clear picture of your primary and secondary love languages will explain much of your past behavior. Think back over the past and ask yourself, “What have I most often requested of my spouse?” Chances are your answer will lie within the scope of your primary and secondary love languages. You have been requesting that which would meet your deepest need for emotional love. Your requests, however, might have come across as nagging or criticizing and thus drove your spouse away.


Written by smudgi3

October 6, 2010, Wednesday at 12:24

Posted in Stuff

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  1. pretty neat, thanks for sharing. i’ll do the quiz too ^^


    October 11, 2010, Monday at 00:53

  2. […] From smudgie: […]

    Wenjie's Ramblings · Five Languages of Love

    October 14, 2010, Thursday at 00:38

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